Thursday, December 23, 2010

One Month Old



Madeline turned one month old yesterday (and I'm just getting around to posting this now, oops).  She is such a sweetheart.  She's opening her eyes more and more.  She can track objects that are right in front of her face - it's neat to see how we can hold her gaze.  Most of the time she eats pretty well and doesn't have any problems going back and forth from nursing to bottle feedings.  She takes great naps during the day, sometimes for more than two hours (and then I have to wake her up to eat).  Nighttime is not so wonderful...she's doing the newborn thing where she wakes up just as we're ready for bed.  Once she's awake in the middle of the night, it takes an hour or two to get her back down.  During the day she naps in the pack & play in our main living area.  At night she's in the bassinet beside my side of the bed.  She does not like to be swaddled at all.  After swaddling Ben for so long, it's strange to have a baby who just goes to sleep without being wrapped up.  We make sure to bundle her up in lots of layers because it's been so cold here.  She has been out and about to social functions several times, and she does well being held by all of her adoring fans.

Tuesday, December 21, 2010

Early December

Wearing a hand-me-down from Ben.  And posing just like Ben did when he was a newborn.
 
Studying Daddy.

 I snuck up on Aunt Katie for this one.

 Ben is obsessed with his Advent calendars.  He has two of them, one for before naptime and one for before bedtime.

 Checking out the floating teddy bears.

 It took a while for Ben to understand that the pack & play is now for the baby and not for him.
  He's cool with it now.

 She loves her super-comfy ducky sleep sack.

 Helping to make pumpkin bread.  He didn't think I was putting in enough of the spices.

 "Benamin stir!"

Our first friend to visit us at home after Madeline was born.  Ben is always thrilled to see Aunt Ali, or "Ah-yee" as he calls her.

Wednesday, December 15, 2010

Dwarfism

For those who don't know, Madeline has been diagnosed with dwarfism.  This wasn't a huge surprise to me & Mike since my high-risk doctor had noticed some interesting things back on that ultrasound several months ago.  But since I never got a chance to give any details here about her birth, I thought I'd explain more now about how she is being diagnosed.

We were aware that Madeline probably had some kind of skeletal dysplasia, which could range from something very mild to some horrible life-threatening condition.  My doctor thought there was a good chance that she had achondroplasia, the most common form of dwarfism.  We just had to wait until the birth to find out.  The first step would be for a doctor to simply look at her after the birth.  During my c-section, a doctor from the NICU (Dr. A) was in the operating room to evaluate Madeline as soon as she was born and determine whether she was healthy enough to stay with us, or whether they'd have to whisk her off to the NICU.  After she was born Dr. A examined her and told Mike it looked like Maddy did have dwarfism and that she'd order some tests for further evaluation.  I can't explain how relieved we were that she seemed to be healthy and did not have any immediate medical problems.

The next step was a skeletal survey, which is a whole bunch of x-rays.  From this, a radiologist determined that she had many of the characteristics of achondroplasia - but there were some things that might point to a different form of dwarfism, so he couldn't make a definite diagnosis.  While we were still in the hospital, Dr. A decided to proceed as if Madeline did indeed have achondroplasia and ordered a brain MRI to rule out certain problems that might come with that condition.  The results were normal.

Dr. A also explained a bit more about dwarfism and how it may affect the future for Madeline and our family.  In the long term, we don't know if she will have any medical complications.  She may need access to specific kinds of medical resources when we get back to the states.  She could possibly need resources like speech therapy, physical therapy and occupational therapy.  Or she may not need any of that.  But for now, we know to be prepared for possible delays in developmental milestones such as sitting up unassisted, crawling, and walking.  Because her head is large and she has decreased muscle tone, we need to avoid using baby equipment that does not provide support for her head since she will probably have trouble holding her head up for a while.  She may be more likely to have ear infections, and we need to watch out for sleep apnea.  She is scheduled for a sleep study in February.

We are taking Madeline to a wonderful pediatrician, Dr. O, at the Army hospital where she was born.  Dr. O pointed out some of Madeline's physical traits other than her short arms and legs that indicate achondroplasia, like the shape of her face, her prominent forehead, and the shape of her nose and eyes.  At one appointment she was slightly concerned about a sudden increase in Maddy's head measurement so she ordered an ultrasound to make sure there was no hydrocephalus, or "fluid on the brain" (there wasn't).  This is a common concern in kids with achondroplasia.  Dr. O also sent us to a German clinic in Heidelberg to speak with a genetic counselor and have bloodwork taken to see if they can confirm that Maddy has achondroplasia, and if not, what kind of dwarfism she does have.  We saw that doctor this week and hope to have the results from the blood test in about a month.  The genetic counselor said that it's certainly not necessary for us to do the blood test, but we'd like to have a definite diagnosis if possible because it would help us know what kinds of medical issues could be down the line.

All of this is very new to us.  First we were advised to not do too much research while I was pregnant (my doctor didn't want us stressed over nothing until we knew what we were dealing with), and then we scrambled to find information once she was born.  And while we've gotten great support from Madeline's doctors, they have very limited experience with dwarfism.  We are doing a lot of research on our own.  Mike and my sister Katie found the website for Little People of America, and it offers a lot of super-helpful information.  I also hope it will provide some social support for us as Maddy gets older.

Right now it's easy for me & Mike to forget she has dwarfism.  She is just our sweet baby girl.  There are only a few things we need to deal with that are different than what we're used to.  She is quite a bit top-heavy and we have to carefully support her head, and she has some feeding issues possibly due to lack of muscle tone in her face and tongue.  And I will need to learn how to hem her clothing - her newborn clothes fit her torso just fine, but her arms and legs get lost in the sleeves and pants.  She looks awfully cute in all the girlie outfits we have for her.  She is adorable in pink (thankfully, since that's most of her wardrobe!) and it looks like her eyes are already starting to turn brown.  I'd be shocked if they were any other color.  So far Ben is very good with her.  He kisses her goodnight, and he helps to feed her bottles.  I know Madeline's not even a month old yet, but right now she's a calm, mild-mannered baby.  I can take her in the car without her screaming her head off like her brother did when he was a baby, and she only cries when she's hungry or uncomfortable.  She makes the most darling facial expressions.  I love that she loves to snuggle.  We're looking forward to seeing more and more of her personality come through over the next few months.

Sunday, December 12, 2010

Tuesday, December 7, 2010

At Home

 Coming home from the hospital.

 Sitting on Big Brother's lap for the first time, with help from Nana.

 The first time Ben saw Madeline at the hospital, he cried, "No baby, no baby!"  By the time she came home, he was ready to offer her the remote control - one of his most prized possessions.




 Her hair gets really curly during baths.  As soon as it dries, it's straight.  And goes into a mohawk.




Wednesday, December 1, 2010

Madeline Rose's Birth

Madeline Rose Richter
November 22, 2010
9:01 am
9 lbs 4 oz
20.5 inches















Tuesday, November 9, 2010

Home Stretch

My c-section is scheduled to happen less than two weeks from now.  Here are some updates from the last few weeks:
  • I am huge.  I'm not kidding.
  • All my non-stress tests have been fine, though Baby Girl tends to want to sleep through them...which makes for some long tests since the point is to monitor her movement.
  • All the recent ultrasounds have been encouraging.  While there was a period of 5-6 weeks over the summer when her limbs didn't show any measurable growth, she has shown growth over the last month.  Her arms and legs are proportionate to each other and are about 6-7 weeks behind what's considered "normal."
  • On the other end of the spectrum, her head and abdomen are huge.  Off the charts.  They are both measuring at least four weeks ahead of "normal."  But this shouldn't affect the delivery because they already determined I'm having a c-section.
  • Dr. M. is hopeful that if there is something abnormal going on, it is mild and won't involve lots of medical issues.  Still no signs of hydrocephaly, and the thorax and abdomen are fine.  We even got to see her practice breathing last time.
  • Unlike her big brother, it looks like Baby Girl will be coming into this world with a lot of hair on her head.
  • I have officially crossed over into the "I have too much amniotic fluid" category, common in gestational diabetics.  No one seems too concerned right now.
  • Have I mentioned how big I am?  I have been getting the "Looks like any day now!" comments from strangers for the last month.  I know this is pretty common for lots of pregnant women, and it happened my first time around...but not this much.  People look scared when the see me coming, like I'm going to steamroll them.  Some people just stare at my stomach in shock without ever making eye contact.  This mostly happens with Germans, they stare a lot more than Americans and aren't at all self-conscious about it.
  • The most recent ultrasound was last Friday, and they estimated Baby Girl to weigh a little over eight pounds.  Scary to think how big she'll be in two weeks.
Having ultrasounds every week is a double-edged sword.  It's kind of stressful waiting for results every time, but it's awesome to get to see her every week.  Here are the latest images of Baby Girl and her chubby cheeks.

We are really looking forward to meeting her soon!  Mike and I took a brief tour of the labor & delivery wing and the mom & baby wing at the hospital last week.  The car seat has been installed.  I'm putting the finishing touches on the nursery.  We are about as ready as we're going to be.  I have yet another non-stress test today, tomorrow I meet with one of my surgeons, and Friday there's another ultrasound.  The waiting is the hardest part...