We went to a well-baby appointment yesterday with a new pediatrician, a civilian on base. I will not be going back to this person if I can help it. She had horrible bedside manner & was not interested in discussing much with us, unlike all of his other doctors (there's a lot of turnover in the Air Force). As soon as she heard that he is still not speaking, she decided to put in a referral for him to see a speech therapist. Mike & I had no part of this decision. I can't imagine what they can do for a fifteen-month-old; the only kids I know of who saw a speech therapist were at least two. But since we are going through the medical clearance process before we go to Germany, we don't have much choice but to follow through with the referral. I agree with the base nurse who sees Ben regularly - she says that Ben does things when Ben is ready, and when he starts talking we won't be able to shut him up. Anyway, that's my rant.
Just when I was thinking that Ben would be taking both morning & afternoon naps until he graduates from high school, he transitioned to one nap a day. He's been taking a 2-hour nap around noon for the last week. I'm hoping to push the nap until after lunch. For the longest time, we couldn't go to playgroup on base because it was right during his morning nap. But we got to go again last week after many months. I thought he would love all the kids and toys. I was shocked when he froze in one spot, then clung to me. So THIS is what people have been saying would happen eventually! I can't remember the last time he ran to me like that. It didn't take too long before he started playing with some books and toys, and then played alongside some other kids. I'm really glad that we'll be able to go to this group more often now.
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Someone else's puppy is the best kind! Looks like you are at the keep everything out of Ben's reach stage now. Love and hugs, Mom
hi! just thought i'd add that i didn't talk until 18 months, and then i talked in complete sentences right away. of course, i don't remember this, but it's what i've been told. :) this is when we lived in new mexico, and the navaho mission nurse said, "she'll talk when she's ready!" sorry you had such a bad well-baby appointment experience. sounds like you guys are great parents!
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